[Libre-soc-dev] HELP

[Alain D D Williams]

On Thu, Aug 22, 2024 at 12:43:07PM +0100, Luke Kenneth Casson Leighton via Libre-soc-dev wrote:

> > 6) Should we ask NLNet for an extension of at least a couple of weeks, to
> be able to complete the above work, given that some team members have daily
> jobs and can only work on evenings and weekends?
> 
> and to ask them to stop being abusive to me, yes.

>From what I have seen NLNet are not abusive to you; they seem to have been
trying to help you. You need to appreciate that. Being autistic makes it hard
to empathise with others (eg NLNet) and so makes it prone to misinterpret them.

Please accept my interpretation. I do not have an axe to grind and so can make
independent and objective comment.

Understanding that they are not abusive will be good for your health.

You are stuck in a feedback loop where you believe that they are abusive and so
your starting point when reading email from them is that it is yet more abuse.

You are well aware of my work helping couples who divorce. I have seen this
many times over 30 years - I often have to tell people to try to understand
their ex-partner and what their concerns may be.

Mistakes & misunderstandings happen. They are not necessarily abusive.

So a bit of understanding might avoid this:

> i have had to call up medical services yet again as i have
> all the symptoms of having had another stroke, caused by
> the distress of them not listening.

Regards

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