[Libre-soc-dev] significant improvement and training needed for advocacy

[lkcl]

nichola i am going to be speaking *about* you, please do not
think this implies discourtesy on my part. this preamble is
to recognise you as a human being. fergus, likewise, but in
your case i do not know your manager, please pass this on
to them, thank you

to the advocacy people (and POHWER) management - both
organisations are 100% failing me and becoming part of
the problem not the solution.

nichola has repeated inappropriate unwanted advice at least
four times, each and every time humiliating and frightening
me. she does not listen and does not stop giving this deeply
inappropriate advice, which is clearly cut/paste templated.

charlotte failed me 100% due to being restricted by the
criminal conduct of the NHS.

messages from nichola now begin with threats: "sorry you are
autistic and have been abused and tortured: get me the
information i want or i will terminate advocacy"

she then repeats case reference numbers that have absolutely
no context or meaning to me, making me overwhelmed, humiliated,
and fearful of being abandoned without proper support.

placing people with autism under pressure is deeply distressing.

placing people who have been tortured under *any* kind of
pressure is just outright medically dangerous.

i have asked her many many times to get proper training in
both autism and torture.

she has failed to acknowledge.

i did some google searches last week to show her that she
is in no way meeting safe communications standards and
practices

she has failed to acknowledge.

as it stands: nichola is, i am sorry to have to say this,
becoming dangerous to me due to her lack of training in
how to communicate safely.

she needs some serious proper support from your organisation.
if she views even one of the videos i have recorded, of being
violently assaulted, of me screaming in abject terror,
or almost dying of untreated anaphylaxis in UHS A&E, it
could seriously traumatise her and she would need proper
professional counselling.

(which i am not receiving, btw)

please acknowledge that you will review her communications
and provide adequate training, proper support and a more
professional and empathetic approach that takes into
account both my autistic medical condition and the fact
that i have been tortured.

l.